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When a marriage or relationship ends, one of the first questions is often: does one of you stay in the home and buy the other out? Or do you sell the house and split the proceeds? If you want to buy out your partner, the first step is a realistic calculation of the buyout amount. That amount determines how much you pay your ex-partner to become the sole owner. In this guide, we explain how to approach that calculation, which costs you should not forget, and when selling might be a better choice.
A buyout means that one partner takes over the other partner's share of the jointly owned home. This usually happens during a divorce or the end of a legal or de facto cohabitation. The partner who stays in the house pays the other partner a sum for their portion of the property. After that, the home becomes the sole property of the remaining partner.
The buyout amount is not simply half of the market value. You need to account for the outstanding mortgage, any personal contributions, costs, and the division you agree on. The notary also plays a role: they handle the transfer of ownership and ensure the mortgage is adjusted.
Not every situation is equally suited to a buyout. If the remaining partner cannot afford the monthly payments alone or cannot finance the buyout amount, selling is often a wiser path. For more on the choice between buying out and selling, read our guide on buying out a house in a divorce: how it works and what your options are.
A correct calculation starts with the current value of the home. Ideally, have it appraised by a certified appraiser or a notary. Some couples also use a recent real estate agent's estimate, but keep in mind that an estimate does not guarantee a sale price.
From that value, subtract the outstanding mortgage debt. The remaining amount is the equity in the home. Divide that amount according to your ownership split. With a classic 50/50 division, each person is entitled to half of that equity.
For example: the home is appraised at 300,000 euros and the outstanding mortgage is 180,000 euros. The equity is then 120,000 euros. The buyout amount for one partner is 60,000 euros, plus any adjustments for personal contributions or costs incurred. It is best to discuss those adjustments with a notary or family law attorney, because the rules differ by region and by situation.
For a more detailed explanation with examples, see our article on calculating the buyout amount in a divorce.
The buyout amount itself is not the only sum you need to budget for. There are also costs tied to the transfer of ownership and the mortgage adjustment. Think of notary fees, registration or division duties, and the cost of a new mortgage registration.
In addition, the remaining partner often needs to take out a new loan to pay the buyout amount. Banks look at your income and repayment capacity. Not everyone gets that financing approved, especially after a divorce when income is sometimes lower.
Tax benefits such as the housing bonus can also change when the ownership situation changes. So get support from a notary or a financial advisor familiar with family property law. They can tell you which costs apply in your region and how best to handle them.
A buyout often sounds attractive because you can stay in your familiar home. But it is not always feasible or wise. If the buyout amount is too high for your budget, or if the monthly mortgage payment after the takeover becomes too heavy, selling can bring more peace of mind.
Also, when the relationship is difficult and discussions about the home cause a lot of stress, a sale can create clarity faster. With a sale to a fixed buyer, you do not need to hire a real estate agent, organize viewings, or wait months for a buyer. You receive a no-obligation offer and can decide when the sale goes through.
For more on the value of your home in a divorce, read what is my house worth in a divorce?. And if you are torn between selling and buying out, our main page on selling a house in a divorce can help you get started.
Start with an open conversation about the home. Try to determine together what is feasible for both of you: does someone stay, or is the house sold? Put agreements in writing as soon as possible, even informally, to avoid misunderstandings later.
Request an appraisal early and gather all documents about the mortgage, the purchase deed, and any renovation invoices. That makes calculating the buyout amount easier and prevents disputes afterwards.
Involve a notary as soon as you choose a direction. They guide the transfer of ownership and ensure all legal steps are followed correctly. For personal advice on your rights and obligations, consult a family law attorney.
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